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129 – The Unexpected, Positive Benefits of Embracing the Anchor of Solitude

I couldn't sleep, so I’m up doing what I learned from Jonny to regulate myself. I never know the direction these quiet moments will take, but I know something positive always happens... and that’s what I want to share with you today.
Hi Neighbor,
Do you enjoy unexpected, positive surprises? I do! In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I share a story about why I value the anchor of solitude and hope you’ll consider embracing it too.
We’ll also reflect on a passage from the book of Psalms and discuss solitude from episodes 5, 71, and 128. (see links below)
Help, hope, and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,Tim
P.S. Here are the links to the episodes referenced today.Ep 5 – 3 Benefits of Walking to Overcome Overwhelm and Stress
EP 71 – Sit With the Text? How the Psalms Can Help You Overcome Storms in Your Life
Ep 128 – 4 Simple Tips To Find Peaceful Sleep as an Adoptive Parent
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128 – 4 Simple Tips To Find Peaceful Sleep as an Adoptive Parent

Are you having trouble sleeping? You’re restless. You’re tossing and turning. Maybe you had too much caffeine that day. Maybe you have a busy calendar the next day and you’re concerned about everything you have to do.
For adoptive parents, maybe it’s out of concern for your children. I know this can leave you anxious. Your mind is racing. You’re losing sleep.
What can you do?
Hi Neighbor,
Are restless nights and racing thoughts keeping you up? You’re not alone. In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I share 4 practical tips to help you calm your mind and achieve that restful night’s sleep you crave.
We’ll also look at inspiring scriptures from Psalm 77 and Proverbs 3.
Grab a pen and paper. I’ll funnel these tips through the acronym CALM. Think of it as a mental massage for your mind.
Help, hope, and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,Tim
P.S. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

127 – 5 Ways to Help Adoptive Parents Navigate the Anxiety of the Adoption Journey

How can adoptive parents prepare themselves for the challenges they will face in their adoption journeys? May I suggest it can be as simple as picking up sticks?
Hi Neighbor,
In this unplugged episode, I want to share 2 stories that will illustrate the concept of the Daily Doable and how it relates to adoptive parents and the storms they will face in their adoption journeys.
I’m pulling back the curtain to share how I have been able to navigate the anxiety that adoptive parenting presented in my life.
Grab a pen and paper and dive into the 5 ways to harness the power of the Daily Doable. While this won’t eliminate your storms, it will help you face them with courage and confidence.
Help, hope, and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,Tim
P.S. I also want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

126 – I See You! 3 Simple Words To Encourage Adoptive Parents To Never Give Up (ENCORE EPISODE)

Have you ever sent your future self a letter of encouragement? I did and it turned out to be the boost I needed at exactly the right time.
Hi Neighbor,
As I journaled through ideas for a new episode, I came across one idea in particular. As I explored it, I rediscovered an episode from early in this podcast.
It contained a message that I needed to hear. Chances are if I needed to hear that message, there is someone out there who could benefit from it too.
I would encourage you to grab a pen and paper, listen to the episode, and make a list of the things I talk about in the Daily Doable so that you can be encouraged and can encourage others as well.
I See You! We were miles from where we started. At this point, we were tired but there was no turning back. Then I looked down and saw the encouragement we needed to finish.
Help, hope, and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Tim
P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

125 – Anxious, Adoptive Parent? 5 Ways To Love a Child of Adoption Trauma (ENCORE EPISODE)

Would he hate us for loving him this much? We didn’t know. Would he see this as the ultimate act of betrayal? We didn’t know. Would he embrace the help we had finally found for him? We didn’t know. What we did know was our son needed help, help our love couldn’t give him.
Hi Neighbor,
Today I want to take you back to the beginning. The beginning of this podcast with a story of one of the most difficult days in my life.
In this encore episode, we’ll explore the theme: 5 Ways To Love a Child of Adoption Trauma. Looking back on that day, I realized how much anxiety my wife and I had been living with. We were overwhelmed, we couldn’t breathe, and we felt like we were drowning.
As I’ve talked with many of you, it’s quite apparent how much anxiety you’re living with as well. There are so many things I’ve learned since that day about how to navigate the challenges of anxiety and adoption trauma.
It’s my prayer that my story will give you Help, Hope, and Healing in your adoption journey.
Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Tim
P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

124 – Journaling: How Journaling Prompts Helped My Son Like Himself Again (ENCORE EPISODE)

“After you journal for a certain amount of time, you get into that comfortable practice with it, it starts to become your natural release.” ~Jonny Maudlin
Hi Neighbor,
Today, I would like to share a special encore episode where we’ll circle back to a conversation I had with my son Jonny about one of the tools he learned in residential.
This tool was instrumental in Jonny liking himself again, and this tool is something I have adopted in my life and encourage you to practice too.
It’s journaling!
Journaling continues to help Jonny shape his life and navigate its ups and downs. So whether you’re hearing this for the first time or revisiting it, I’m excited for you to dive back into the insights and the transformative strategies of journaling.
Hope and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Tim
P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

123 – Insensitive, Hurtful Comments? 3 Benefits of Taking Your Frustrations Out On Paper (ENCORE EPISODE)

Have you ever said something out of anger or frustration? If you answered 'yes' I invite you to listen to this encore episode of Anchors of Encouragement, where I’ll share how you can get rid of your frustrations without saying a word.
Hi Neighbor,
I would like to share with you a special encore episode where we’ll circle back to the beginning and consider one of my 3 core anchors, self-awareness. It’s something I continue to use on a regular basis to help me navigate the storms of life.
So whether you’re hearing this for the first time or revisiting it, I’m excited for you to dive back into the insights and the transformative strategies of becoming a paper tiger.
I pray this episode helps you avoid saying things you will regret.
Hope and Healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Tim
P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

122 – Hope for Adoptive Parents? Try 10-10-10 a Powerful Coping Tool for Struggling Adoptees (ENCORE EPISODE)

Are you an adoptive parent looking for hope and practical strategies to navigate the unique challenges of adoption?
Would hearing from both a parent and a child about their journey through the adoption process and coming out stronger on the other side be helpful to you?
If you answered 'yes' to any of these questions, I invite you to listen to this encore episode of Anchors of Encouragement, where my son Jonny and I share a powerful story that could provide the breakthrough you've been looking for.
Hey Neighbor,
You’re about to listen again to one of our most powerful episodes where I sit down with my Dad, Tim, to talk about the struggles, breakthroughs, and lessons learned on my path through adoption trauma.
We dive into the life-changing concept of 10-10-10 and share the real and raw conversation adoptive families need to hear. Whether you caught it the first time or it’s new to you, this encore presentation is sure to bring valuable insights and perhaps be the anchor you need to stay steady in the storms of life.
Let’s step back into this journey together and remember, no storm is too tough to weather with the right tools and support.
Hope and Healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣Jonny
P.S. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.

121 – Solar Eclipse: A Story of Faith, Family and Encouragement

It seemed like it would be the perfect spot to experience this moment, but I wasn't sure I would be allowed to go there. As it turned out, I was, and it was perfect.
Hi Neighbor,
Recently, I got to witness nature put on one of its most stunning shows – a total solar eclipse. It was a few moments of profound introspection.
This episode of Anchors of Encouragement is all about that. I want to tell you about this amazing sight, how it almost didn’t happen, and how it ties back to memories and moments that are worth holding onto, including a special connection with my Mom.
We'll also consider some passages from Psalm 19, and think about how something as everyday as the sky and something as rare as a total solar eclipse can be a source of encouragement and comfort. It’s a reminder that there is a Power much greater than any of us in control of it all.
Ready for a moment of calm and a bit of soul-soothing?
Hope and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,Tim
P.S. In this episode, I also mention Episode 119 – Biblical Encouragement From the Anchor of Promise
And I want to invite you to be a part of our amazing community. Click this LINK to join today.

120 – Are You in Pain? 3 Reasons to Walk for Wellness

“An early morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.” ~Henry David Thoreau
Hi Neighbor,
In this unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I want to share 3 reasons why I step away from my day-to-day activities and go for a walk.
The simple act of walking can be a tremendous source of solace and strength. And I want to encourage you to walk for wellness too.
You’ll realize benefits that will bless you throughout your entire day.
Hope and healing are on the way.
Your Neighbor,Tim
P.S. Speaking of benefits, check out Episode 5 – 3 Benefits of Walking to Overcome Overwhelm and Stress